Mar 10, 2025 | assertiveness, boundaries, comfortable, communication, core values, mental health, people pleasing, relationships
Have you ever felt uncomfortable with something someone said or did… but knew they meant absolutely nothing by it? Let’s talk about what I like to call “Sweet Old Man Syndrome.” (This happens with women, too!) Sweet Old Man Syndrome occurs when you interact with...
Sep 24, 2024 | assertiveness, beliefs, boundaries, communication, happiness at work, people pleasing, personal development, professional development
A few years ago, I was brand new to our local speaking organization. As I often do, I joined the board and served to get a feel for the group and add value. I didn’t realize it at the time, but I was about to get one of the greatest boundary lessons of my life. Before...
Aug 19, 2024 | assertiveness, boundary setting, communication, personal development, professional development
I have bad news. You’re not a very good actor. When you are angry with people, resentful of their behavior and their “asks,” they know. They’ll pick up on the fact that you aren’t your normal cheery self, and eventually, they will ask you, “What’s up?” That’s the...
Jul 22, 2024 | assertiveness, boundaries, Business, communication, core values, Entrepreneurial Skills, stress
Are you setting healthy boundaries in your business? Can we be honest for a minute? Being an entrepreneur is hard. You probably went into business because: You truly love whatever it is you do. Whether that’s accounting, law, writing, or underwater basket weaving, you...
Jun 24, 2024 | assertiveness, boundaries, Business, communication, mental health, professional development, time management
Do you set expectations when you begin a new working relationship? I was chatting with a friend this morning. She’s in graduate school and about to start a new semester as a TA. The professor informed her she leaves a lot of things to the last minute and likes to “fly...
Jun 17, 2024 | assertiveness, beliefs, boundaries, comfortable, communication, people pleasing
It happened again. Someone asked you to do something, and the Yes just came flying out of your mouth without even consulting your brain! Ugh… why can’t I say no? While this Yes Vomit is unpleasant, it’s certainly not uncommon. Depending on what survey you consult, the...
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